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How to Split Elterngeld Months Between Parents

Elterngeld Help·Reviewed 17 August 2026

Key takeaways

  • Parents initially share 12 Basis months; two partner months require reduced earned income for at least two life months.
  • Each parent claiming Elterngeld must claim at least two life months.
  • For births from April 2024, simultaneous Basis receipt is generally limited to one of the first 12 life months.

Your month 'budget'

Parents share 12 Basiselterngeld months. Two additional partner months are available when at least one parent had income from work before birth and income falls for two life months after birth. Each parent who claims must take at least two life months.

The months may be consecutive or alternating. Simultaneous Basis receipt is generally limited for births from April 2024; statutory exceptions apply.

Common ways to split

The 'traditional' split (12+2): Mom takes 12 months, dad takes 2 months. This unlocks all 14 months while one parent takes most of the leave.

The 'equal' split (7+7): Both parents take 7 months each. Often done consecutively (mom first, then dad).

The 'overlap' approach: Both parents take leave at the same time for some period. Great for the early weeks when you both want to be home.

More flexibility with ElterngeldPlus

One Basis month can be converted into two Plus months. The conversion spreads the same entitlement over more life months; it does not create a second budget.

After life month 14, at least one parent must receive ElterngeldPlus or Partnerschaftsbonus without a gap. The latest possible month is generally life month 32. Plan the actual sequence.

Taking months at the same time

Both parents can receive Elterngeld in the same life month, but the type matters. Two simultaneous Basis months consume two entitlements and, for births from April 2024, are generally possible together only for one of the first twelve life months. Different rules apply when one parent receives Plus, and the law contains exceptions.

Next steps

Frequently asked questions

What are life months (Lebensmonate)?

Elterngeld is paid according to the child's life months, not calendar months. A life month starts on the child's birthday. Example: Child born March 15 → 1st life month: March 15 to April 14, 2nd life month: April 15 to May 14, etc. Important: Your Elternzeit should also be planned according to life months!

Should I plan Elternzeit and Elterngeld together?

Yes, definitely! Important: Plan your Elternzeit according to the child's life months, not calendar months. If your Elternzeit ends mid-life-month, you'll have income from working days in that month offset against your Elterngeld. Align the periods precisely!

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