Have a question? Just ask usmarijke@elterngeldhelp.com
Ask us a question

Elterngeld for Single Parents: All 14 Months Are Yours

Elterngeld Help·Reviewed 17 August 2026

Key takeaways

  • Single parents (Alleinerziehende) get all 14 Basiselterngeld months themselves
  • You can also claim the Partnerschaftsbonus (just need to meet the hour requirement)
  • Living apart from the other parent alone is not enough; the tax-law single-parent condition normally also matters.

All 14 months are yours

When both parents live together, they share 14 Basiselterngeld months, with one parent limited to 12 unless the other takes at least 2.

For single parents, this restriction doesn't apply. You can take all 14 months yourself, with no minimum required from anyone else.

Who counts as a 'single parent'?

The usual route requires both: the other parent lives neither with you nor with the child, and you meet the conditions for the tax-law relief amount for single parents. Living with another adult can therefore matter. Sole custody is not the general statutory test.

Exceptional routes apply where care by the other parent would endanger the child or is impossible because of severe illness or disability.

You can get Partnerschaftsbonus too

Here's something many single parents don't know: You're eligible for the Partnerschaftsbonus even without a partner!

For coupled parents, both need to work 24-32 hours. For single parents, only your hours count. If you work between 24-32 hours per week for 2-4 consecutive months, you get the bonus months.

What you need to prove

To claim single-parent status, you'll need to provide:

  • Meldebescheinigung showing you live alone with your child
  • Declaration that the other parent doesn't live in your household
  • Custody documentation if relevant

The Elterngeldstelle may ask follow-up questions, especially if the parents were previously together.

Next steps

Frequently asked questions

Is there more Elterngeld for premature births?

Yes, for children born at least 6 weeks before the due date, there are additional Basiselterngeld months: 6 weeks early = 1 extra month, 8 weeks = 2 extra, 12 weeks = 3 extra, 16 weeks = 4 extra months. Additionally, both parents can receive Basiselterngeld simultaneously longer with premature babies.

Ready to check your eligibility?

Our free guide walks you through everything step by step.

Start free guide →